I do w0nder if the destinati0n of the j0urney 2
motherhood of s0me ladies makes them 2 f0rget the r0ute of which
the j0urney began!
What d0 I mean? I have seen many married ladies here with the
complaint that their husbands is cheating on them despite having
one or tw0 kid(s) f0r him!
S0me c0mplain of their husbands n0t spending time with them at
h0me or taking them out, s0me that their marriage is still fresh but
their husband are n0 l0nger sh0wing the l0ve he pr0mised them!
Now lets go d0wn t0 business, I believe that bef0re b0th of y0u g0t
married s0mething in y0u attracted him by dating y0u and also
motivated him in getting married t0 y0u but unf0rtunately y0u
all0wed that weap0n of l0ve y0u had on him t0 die! Ok, when you
both were still dating, y0u were fixin and keeping your nails so clean
and attractive, y0u changes y0ur haird0 and even have a style
which he cherishes s0 much that whenever he sees it on y0u, 0h
God, he can't resist y0u, y0u wear a nice perfume that he feels like
eating y0u up whenever he is ar0und y0u, y0u do sents him lovely
text msgs every night bef0re he g0es t0 bed which made him to
find y0u irresistable and ended up making y0u his wife because he
believes it will c0ntinue like that as l0ng as y0u b0th are together! But
immediately after marriage y0u all0wed these things to die in y0u,
so tell me, why w0n't he cheat on y0u by g0ing after those girls that
still p0ssess these things!
Husbands cheat on their wieves because they are n0 l0nger the
person they use to be bef0re they g0t married!
How can he n0t cheat 0n y0u when y0u have bec0me a liability to
him that he even feels ashame t0 bring his friends/ c0lleagues
h0me!
T0 make y0ur marriage a heaven made 0n earth y0u have to play
your part as a g00d wife and n0t leaving everytin to him al0ne (a
tree cann0t make a f0rest) be that l0vely, seductive, attractive, hard-
working and caring girlfriend he use t0 kn0w bef0re!
*Its alarming h0w s0me ladies after getting married and having 0ne
or tw0 kid(s), they turn themselves int0 0ld grannys! They leave
their hair unkept like a w0man wh0se husband died, ties wrapper
from m0rning till night, leaves their breast with n0 bra, leaves their
nails unkept and w0rst still, breast-feed their babies all day with0ut
taking a single bath and sleeps afterwards! Tell me why would your
husband spends time with y0u or why w0n't he cheat on you by
having an affair outside since y0u have made y0urself unattractive
t0 him! These are ladies wh0 husbands takes their secretary t0
dinner parties instead of them!
*Its als0 the fault of a lady wh0 lays 0n a bed like a gh0st in the
m0rning and f0rg0t that her husband will eat bef0re g0ing t0 w0rk!
C'm0n, take y0ur ass outta that bed and go fix s0mething f0r
breakfast f0r him, 0nce y0ur husband is up preparing himself f0r
w0rk, y0u have to be awake also and even help him in dressing up,
if he d0esn't like eating bef0re g0ing to w0rk, just prepare him a cup
of h0t tea or c0ffee!
*If y0u are n0t a w0rking class lady, beg him t0 set up a lucrative
business f0r y0u s0 that y0u can be supp0rt t00, d0n't just stay at
h0me to eat and sleep because the result might be 0besity and a l0t
of men hates such!
*If y0u have a maid/h0use help, d0n't turn her int0 y0ur husband's
sec0nd wife by all0wing her do all y0ur husband's meal, men are
easily turn off by the attitude of such ladies because it 0nly sh0w
h0w lazy y0u are!
*D0 remember h0w y0u sends him r0mantic text msgs when y0u
b0th were still dating! S0, whenever he is out t0 w0rk, just send him
one or two l0ve msgs telling him h0w much he means t0 y0u and
make sure it c0mes fr0m the depth of y0ur heart!
*D0n't be a nagging wife, always appreciate him, dress in a way he
can't resist y0u, keep the h0use clean, play with him, always make
his f00d ready bef0re he c0mes back fr0m w0rk and also do
welc0me his family with open arms!
*S0me ladies immediately after marriage they call their husband by
their names or the name of any of their kids! Oh N0, its n0t so! Thats
n0t romantic, he is still the guy y0u dated so c0ntinue with the pet
names!
*D0n't compare y0ur husband with other men, be c0ntented with
what he has g0t and d0n't wish 2 be Mrs J0hn c0s her husband g0t
her a new car, be y0urself!
*Ladies, once in a while take y0ur husband and kid(s) out! D0n't wait
untill he d0es that, like saturdays take them out to a l0vely and quiet
place and have fun! Y0u can even drive the car y0urself, let him be
your wife that day while y0u being the husband! Make it more
romantic! Spend y0ur m0ney on y0ur husband !
Make all these and m0re y0ur weap0n of love and y0ur husband
will never think of cheating on y0u! *Ladies make y0urselves
Presentable s0 that y0u can be Ad0rable in the eyes of y0ur
husbands*